Run SY Run: Weeks 3 & 4- Quiet Work, Real Life, and Finding Balance

Weeks 3 and 4 didn’t look loud.

No major milestones.
No dramatic changes.
No big announcements.

Just me…showing up.

Showing up, even when progress feels quiet.

And I’m starting to understand that this part of the journey matters just as much as the beginning.

Because this is where discipline gets real.

I won’t lie… I thought I would see more by now.

But instead of obvious changes, what I’m noticing is subtle:

  • weights increasing
  • movements feeling more controlled
  • a little more strength
  • a little more confidence
Strength is building, even when it’s subtle.

It’s quiet progress.

The kind that doesn’t scream for attention, but it’s there if you’re paying attention.

And in the middle of all of that… life happened.

My homegirl came into town.
We went out.
We laughed.
We enjoyed ourselves.

Because the journey should include moments like this too.

And I let myself be present in those moments.

And if I’m being honest… this is where my word of the year, Grace, is showing up the most.

Grace to enjoy the moment
Grace to step away without guilt.
Grace to come back without pressure.

Because this journey, for me, isn’t about restriction.
It’s not about missing out.
It’s not about choosing fitness over life.

It’s about learning how to balance both.

I’m learning that preparation matters.

I got my workouts in before the weekend.
I moved with intention because I knew what was coming.

Preparation makes balance possible.

And when the schedule shifted, I didn’t panic.

I adjusted.

That’s what moderation looks like for me.

Not all or nothing.
Not perfection.

Just making sure I don’t lose myself in either direction.

Some people say you can work hard all week and ruin it on the weekend.
But I’m learning that it doesn’t have to be that way.

If you move with intention, you can enjoy life and stay committed to your goals at the same time. Preparation matters. Mindfulness matters. Balance matters.

For me, it’s not about being perfect every day.
It’s about being aware of the choices I’m making and staying aligned with what I want overall.

Because the truth is…

I want the results.
But I also want the memories.

I want the discipline.
But I also want the experiences.

And I’m realizing I don’t have to choose.

So weeks 3 and 4?

They weren’t flashy.

But they were honest.
They were consistent.
They were real.

And I can see the work. Even if it’s quiet.

What I’m learning:

Discipline isn’t about controlling every moment.
It’s about showing up, adjusting, and continuing forward… no matter what life brings.

And this season?
It’s teaching me Grace.

And maybe that’s what real progress looks like.

If you’re on a journey like this too…

How are you learning to balance your goals with your life?

Run SY Run: Week 2 – Consistency Will Always Beat Motivation

Motivation is exciting. It makes us feel ready, energized, and unstoppable. But the truth is motivation comes and goes. Consistency is what carries us forward when motivation is nowhere to be found.

This week was quiet.

No big breakthroughs.
No dramatic moments in the gym.
No exciting milestones to post about.

Just showing up.

Alarm clock early.
Gym bag packed.
Workout logged.
Repeat.

And if I am honest, those are the weeks that matter the most.

It is easy to stay motivated when progress feels obvious.
When the scale drops.
When the weights feel lighter.
When people start noticing.

But the real work happens during the quiet weeks.

The weeks where nothing seems to be changing on the surface. The weeks where discipline has to speak louder than excitement.

This week reminded me that consistency is not about chasing motivation. It is about honoring the commitment you made to yourself even when it feels ordinary.

Even when it feels slow.
Even when no one is clapping for it.

Because progress does not just come from the highlight moments.

It is built in the early mornings.
In the logged workouts.
In the meals prepared when it would be easier not to.
In the decision to show up anyway.

This year my word is Grace.

Grace to stay patient with the process.
Grace to understand that progress is not always loud.
Grace to keep moving forward even on the days that feel small.

Some weeks will be filled with visible wins. Other weeks will look quiet like this one.

Both matter.

Because the truth is the life we want is built in the small decisions we make over and over again. Consistency turns ordinary weeks into extraordinary results over time.

So here is to the quiet weeks. They are doing more than we think. And if your week felt quiet too, give yourself a little grace. Then show up again tomorrow.

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Run SY Run: Week 1 – Showing Up Anyway

This week I committed to an eight week reset. Early mornings, disciplined training, and paying closer attention to the habits that shape real progress.

Day one tested that commitment almost immediately.

My alarm went off at 3:00 AM, and like most mornings when I train, I moved through the routine almost on autopilot. Measurements taken. Baseline photos captured. She ready. Out the door.

Seven minutes into the drive I realized something.

My phone was still sitting on the kitchen counter.

Normally that might not sound like a big deal, but my phone holds two things that matter for those early workouts. My training plan and my music.

For a moment I actually considered just going to the gym without it. I also thought about turning around and calling it a day and starting again tomorrow.

But that’s the funny thing about commitment. When you have already decided you are doing the work, excuses start to lose their power.

So I turned around, grabbed my phone, and still made it to the gym.

3:50 AM. Showing up anyway.

Once I walked through those doors, the rest of the morning unfolded the way it usually does. Headphones on, plan in hand, one exercise at a time.

No fanfare. No dramatic moment. Just the quiet discipline of doing the work.

Later that afternoon I went back to the gym to get a little cardio in. Nothing crazy. Just some incline walking to keep the steps up.

I jumped on the treadmill and settled in.

About fifteen minutes in, with plenty of empty treadmills available, an older gentleman walked over and chose the one directly beside me.

Now listen. The gym was not crowded. Not even close.

There were several other treadmills open. Rows of them.

And yet somehow, the one right next to me was the clear winner.

For a split second I thought about hopping off right then. I only had five minutes left.

But I stayed put, finished the walk, and kept moving.

Because sometimes discipline is just that simple.

Finish what you started.

This eight week block is me dusting off something I have not worn in a while. My personal trainer hat.

For years I helped other people build routines, set goals, and stay consistent. Like a lot of people, life happens and sometimes the person you forget to coach is yourself.

So for the next eight weeks I am turning that focus inward.

The goal is not perfection.

The goal is consistency.

Lifting with intention. Paying attention to nutrition. Tracking progress. Being honest about the process along the way.

Week one reminded me of something simple.

Progress is not about flawless days.
It is about showing up anyway.

Over the next several weeks I will be sharing updates, lessons learned, and maybe a few early morning stories along the way.

Not because I have everything figured out, but because the process itself is worth documenting.

If you have ever needed a reminder to recommit to your own goals, maybe this journey will help you do the same.

Let’s see what eight weeks of focused work can do.

Back in the Game: A 75 Hard Challenge to Reclaim My Fitness Goals

Hey everyone, it’s been a minute, hasn’t it? Five years to be exact. I’m back, and I’m ready to dive back into the world of blogging, especially as I continue my journey towards achieving my fitness goals.

To kickstart this new chapter, I’ve decided to take on the infamous 75 Hard Challenge. Starting on October 1st, I’ll be committing to 75 days of physical training, following a strict diet, drinking gallons of water, reading daily, and adhering to a no-excuses mentality.

I’ve chosen the 75 Hard Challenge because I believe it’s the perfect way to test my resilience, discipline, and commitment. It’s a mental and physical gauntlet that will push me to my limits. Also my lil cousin (Bri) told me she was about to do a version of the challenge herself.

I know, I know, I’m a bit late to the 75 Hard Challenge party. I actually craved the challenge last year but didn’t quite have the will power to dive in. However, I’m determined to make up for lost time and put in the work to achieve my fitness goals.

While the 75 Hard Challenge offers numerous benefits, it’s not without its challenges. Let’s explore some of the pros and cons:

Pros:

  • The challenge is designed to build mental resilience and willpower. It forces you to confront your fears, overcome obstacles, and persevere through adversity. This mental toughness can translate to other areas of your life, such as work, relationships, and personal goals.
  • Consistent workouts and a disciplined diet can lead to significant physical changes.
  • The 75-day commitment can help establish healthy habits that last a lifetime.
  • Completing the challenge provides a tremendous sense of achievement.

Cons:

  • The challenge is demanding and can be physically and mentally exhausting.
  • Adhering to the requirements can be time-consuming.
  • If not approached with balance, the challenge could lead to burnout.
  • If you know me, you know I live for a good bottle of red. Not having a glass of wine after a long day is going to be rough. I will find ways to cope!!! I got this!!

I’m excited to share my experiences with you throughout the 75 Hard Challenge. I’ll be providing an update at the half way mark; documenting my progress, and offering insights into the ups and downs of this transformative journey.

I hope you’ll join me on this adventure. Let’s inspire each other and achieve our goals together.

Thanks for taking the time to come through….show me some love in the comment section. 😘

 #runsyrun #fitnessoverforty #75HardChallenge, #FitnessJourney

Public Service Announcement

Ok, it has been a minute…

🎶Allow me to re-introduce myself…..in my best H-to-the-O-V voice 🎶

The last time I left off, I was eight months into some competition prep ( link). I say some because I never set my sight on an actual date. Well, that was almost two years ago. Wow can’t believe it’s been that long.

Sooooo, what has happened in two years…..

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